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People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness.
Just because they're not on your road doesn't mean they've gotten lost.
~ H. Jackson Brown, Jr.
"The more comfortable I am in my own skin, the less I feel the need to prove anything to anybody."
--Eva Pearls@LeadingEdgeCoaching.com
Giving
Giving is a personal template from God
Giving is one of the best rewards you can give yourself. It is the prerequisite for experiencing the fullness of living. We are creatures designed for giving. Giving is a personal template from God. “For God so loved the world He gave...” It is taking what you have and offering it to another so that they may gain. Giving grows in its value depending on the price paid to give it. It adds life to another. It is the wellspring that blesses both the giver and the receiver. It has untold worth that ripples through the lives of those touched by it. It is infectious. It sparks the desire to do good for others. Giving has no strings attached; anything else is called extortion. Giving does not try to gain acceptance from others -- for that is taking in disguise. Giving is whole-hearted. Giving has immense power when it is done in the dark. God prizes the stealth gifts, for they are displayed on His big screen TV in heaven. Giving says I love you regardless, whatever, whenever. It spans time, circumstances, even wrong strong wills. It sends a positive spin to all who are touched by it and sets in motion a domino-effect throughout the generations. Giving has many forms. Even the smallest gift of a prayer can add mountains of hope in due season. Giving is a mystery to the world, for it flexes its taking muscle and wonders why the end of it is emptiness. Giving keeps you busy from doing the wrong things. It is the antidote for personal loss. Giving in the right spirit, with the right motive, has no loss, for God wastes nothing. Giving blesses the giver before it even gets to the receiver. Giving is only giving what has been given you. For the greatest gift is being for-given.
Duke Rohe
Opportunities to stretch and grow now come to us as easy as
our next breath. We are being catapulted into the 5th dimension
whether we are ready or not.
I've been told many times that my life
is a gift from God and that what I do with my life is my gift
back to Her.
My gift is
an awakened life of Love and Service however much I falter in
its delivery.
My latest
intention is to find beauty in All things. I know it's there but I
don't always see it.
How can I
find beauty in war, for example. That seems a most preposterous idea
doesn't it? War is about death and destruction.
It is about
force.
What could
possibly be beautiful about it?
The beauty
of this war is that it just may be the vehicle through which
humanity has finally had enough. If we are lucky, this war may
be enough to bring us to our knees and end our suffering.
It just
might wake us all up. And that is beautiful.
The beauty
of this war is that awakened people throughout the world
recognize that the source of the conflict lives within them and they
are committed to transmuting every dark aspect of war within their
being so they may be the peace they wish to see.
Every
individual doing this work has an incredible effect on
counterbalancing the negative energies on the planet.
That, my
friends, is beautiful.
The beauty
of this war is that it is flushing to the surface every bit of dark
energy on this jewel called Planet Earth so we can restore her to
her full glory and create Heaven on Earth.
I can see
the beauty of that.
The
most helpful action any of us can take is to expand and raise our
individual consciousness. By moving our energy higher, we can
entrain others who are ready but not able to access higher states of
consciousness without the help of their brothers and sisters.
I commit myself to the beauty
of that.
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2002 Awakenings is a creation of Nancy OBrien Certified
Life Purpose Coach Certified Universal Energy Healing
Master
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Mother Nature
Come and listen to my story
Of Mother Nature in all her glory,
Of gardens filled with precious flowers,
In which I love to walk for hours.
And sometimes just like in a dream,
I sit beside a crystal stream,
Or maybe in the water wade,
Or lay contented in a shade.
Come and hear of scenes so grand,
Like oceans blue and golden sand,
And mountains leaping toward the sky,
Where gay and cheerful birds go by.
And how at dusk the sun do set,
And all my care I soon forget,
As twinkling stars and moon shine bright,
And in my heart is sweet delight.
Come and listen.
by J. Dalrymple
From the time the world was created,
people have seen the earth and sky and all that God made.
They can clearly see His invisible qualities,
His eternal power and divine nature.
So they have no excuse whatsoever for not knowing God.
(Romans 1:20 New Living Translation)
Jeremy was born with a twisted body, a slow mind and a chronic, terminal illness that had been slowly killing him all his young life. Still his parents had tried to give him as normal a life as possible and had sent him to St. Theresa's Elementary School.
At the age of 12, Jeremy was only in second grade, seemingly unable to learn. His teacher, Doris Miller, often became exasperated with him. He would squirm in his seat, drool and make grunting noises. At other times, he spoke clearly and distinctly, as if a spot of light had penetrated the darkness of his brain. Most of the time, however, Jeremy irritated his teacher.
One day, she called his parents and asked them to come to St. Theresa's for a consultation. As the Forresters sat quietly in the empty classroom, Doris said to them, "Jeremy really belongs in a special school. It isn't fair to him to be with younger children who don't have learning problems. Why, there is a five-year gap between his age and that of the other students!"
Mrs. Forrester cried softly into a tissue while her husband spoke. "Miss Miller," he said, "there is no school of that kind nearby. It would be a terrible shock for Jeremy if we had to take him out of this school. We know he really likes it here."
Doris sat for a long time after they left, staring at the snow outside the window. Its coldness seemed to seep into her soul. She wanted to sympathize with the Forresters. After all, their only child had a terminal illness. But it wasn't fair to keep him in her class. She had 18 other youngsters to teach and Jeremy was a distraction. Furthermore, he would never learn to read or write. Why waste any more time trying?
As she pondered the situation, guilt washed over her. "Oh God," she said aloud, "here I am complaining when my problems are nothing compared with that poor family! Please help me to be more patient with Jeremy."
From that day on, she tried to ignore Jeremy's noises and his blank stares.
Then one day he limped to her desk, dragging his bad leg behind him. "I love you, Miss Miller," he exclaimed loudly enough for the whole class to hear.
The other children snickered, and Doris's face turned red. She stammered, "Wh-Why, that's very nice, Jeremy. Now please take your seat."
Spring came, and the chidden talked excitedly about the coming of Easter. Doris told them of the story of Jesus, and then to emphasize the idea of new life springing forth, she gave each of the children a large plastic egg. "Now," she said to them, "I want you to take this home and bring it back tomorrow with something inside that shows new life. Do you understand?"
"Yes, Miss Miller!" the children responded enthusiastically - all except for Jeremy. He just listened intently, his eyes never left her face. He did not even make his usual noises. Had he understood what she had said about Jesus' death and resurrection? Did he understand the assignment? Perhaps she should call his parents and explain the project to them.
That evening, Doris's kitchen sink stopped up. She called the landlord and waited an hour for him to come by and unclog it. After that, she still had to shop for groceries, iron a blouse and prepare a vocabulary test for the next day. She completely forgot about phoning Jeremy's parents.
The next morning, 19 children came to school, laughing and talking as they placed their eggs in the large wicker basket on Miss Miller's desk. After they completed their Math lesson, it was time to open the eggs. In the first egg, Doris found a flower. "Oh yes, a flower is certainly a sign of new life," she said. "When plants peek through the ground we know that spring is here." A small girl in the first row waved her arms. "That's my egg, Miss Miller," she called out.
The next egg contained a plastic butterfly, which looked very real. Doris held it up, "We all know that a caterpillar changes and grows into a beautiful butterfly. Yes that is new life, too." Little Judy smiled proudly and said, "Miss Miller, that one is mine."
Next, Doris found a rock with moss on it. She explained that the moss, too, showed life. Billy spoke up from the back of the classroom. "My Daddy helped me!" he beamed.
Then Doris opened the fourth egg. She gasped. The egg was empty! Surely it must be Jeremy's she thought, and of course, he did not understand her instructions. If only she had not forgotten to phone his parents. Because she did not want to embarrass him, she quietly set the egg aside and reached for another. Suddenly Jeremy spoke up. "Miss Miller, aren't you going to talk about my egg?"
Flustered, Doris replied, "but Jeremy - your egg is empty!" He looked into her eyes and said softly, "Yes, but Jesus' tomb was empty too!"
Time stopped. When she could speak again, Doris asked him, "Do you know why the tomb was empty?" "Oh yes!" Jeremy exclaimed. "Jesus was killed and put in there. Then His Father raised Him up!"
The recess bell rang. While the children excitedly ran out to the school yard, Doris cried. The cold inside her melted completely away.
Three months later Jeremy died. Those who paid their respects at the mortuary were surprised to see 19 eggs on top of his casket, all of them empty.
She came right up to me out of nowhere, this little Black girl with
the biggest brightest smile I had ever seen. "Hi my name is
Dee, glad to meet you, and always remember God loves you." This was
my very first meeting with a wonderful self confident joyful 8-year-old
who was to become a lifelong friend. I have to admit that in the
early days I did feel somewhat superior, after all I was older than
her. I was 9 years old and in the next level in Sunday school class
and the next grade at school. The friends that I hung out with were
older and far more mature. Heck, I don't know if I even believed
that back then but it sounded good anyhow. Nevertheless, because of
the age difference, we really only saw each other every Sunday at
communal gatherings before we each parted for our designated Sunday
school class. Never once during those years at Welcome Hall Mission
did I ever see a frown, or hear a bad word come from Dee. She was
the happiest person I had ever met. Being poor and living in the
ghetto, believe me it was difficult to find true happiness yet Dee
managed to find it every single day of her life!
With high school, came new challenges for me and of course since Dee
was in fact younger she was sort of left behind. I did keep in touch
though through a mutual friend, named LaVern. LaVern and I talked
over the phone, and since she was a close friend of Dee at the time
she would let me know how she was doing. Still later, both Dee and I
had married and divorced and both of us came back home to the ghetto
community that we were raised in. It was here really that we resumed
our friendship. Dee was living with her mother at the time.
La Vern told me that Dee was the community's champion scrabble
player. No one who played her could beat her. I had played a few
games of scrabble myself and decided to give her a try. True to form
Dee beat me each and every time. She was a champion scrabble player
and had won in international tournaments. But never once would she
pass up an opportunity to play a game even with an amateur like me!
The first gift that Dee had ever given me was her intoxicating
personality and the second was the love of scrabble. Later, Dee moved
into her own apartment again once her personal life stabilized. It
was during the early days of our reunion, that I had the opportunity
to date a man that I had previously gone to school with. He ended up
moving into our ghetto community and we met one night while walking
along the street. We discovered that since our school days we had
both married and divorced. That meeting had sparked a mutual
interest in dating and getting to know each other once again.
However, I was faced with a moral dilemma. I had found out through La
Vern that this man was in fact Dee's ex-husband. I was not sure if I
could date him under the circumstances. La Vern did not see a
problem but the situation still nagged at me so I decided to consult
Dee about it. True to form Dee wished me the best of luck and told
me if it made me happy go for it. The third gift that she gave me
was to consider my own needs and wants whereas before I had always
put the needs of others before me.
Often times I would talk about Dee to yet another friend, May who
also lived in our ghetto community. May prided herself on knowing
all the residents of the community but could not quite place Dee.
However, one day after a physical description was given, May said
" I know that lady, one day when I struggling home with bags of
groceries this taxi stopped and this black woman with the biggest smile
asked me if I needed a lift home, I am now convinced that was Dee!".
From this act of kindness, the fourth gift that she gave me was the gift
of charity.
The years progressed and we were truly solid friends. We played
scrabble all weekend long and did all the things that friends do.
Dee is a successful writer. She is a historian and an authority on
Blacks in our city. She watched me struggle on welfare raising my
son alone as a single parent until she could not take it anymore.
One day she sat me down and said to me "When are you going to the
university and get yourself a degree, frankly you are just
wasting yourself".
Well I was not open to the suggestion, I had a 1001 and excuses,
mostly valid I have to admit. I was having problems with my teenage
son and life was very overwhelming for me at the time. Consequently
it was not the time in my life to go back to school so I thought. I
was already 37 years old. But Dorothy tackled each and every excuse
one by one and eventually wore down my resistance. I agreed to go to
university if as I put it she would "hold my hand". She agreed. She
mentored me for a full academic year. She edited my papers and
basically taught me how to write. She provided support and guidance
until one day she stopped dead in her tracks and told me straight
out "you don't need me anymore its time for you fly".
It was frustrating, it was challenging, it was exhilarating but I did
it! I graduated from my university cum laudem (graduated with
honours) and I went on to obtain a masters degree in counseling
psychology.
While in univesity, I had taken the teaching skills that I had
learned from her and mentored a few students myself along the way.
Furthermore, challenging each and every one of them to be the best
they could be just as she had done for me.
She gave me the gift of friendship, she gave me the gift of believing
in myself, she gave me the gift of writing, and the gift of
teaching. But the biggest gift of all that she gave me was in deed
the gift of herself.
Carol Roach
2003
Carol is a featured writer for Starfish and loves to write, play
scrabble, play with her pets and most of all she loves God and
people. She also publishes her work right here as well. She is a
grandmother of a bright seven year old going on 25. If you would
like to read her stories you can email her at storytime123@hotmail. or
email her with any comments you may have. She loves to hear from
everyone.
Try to find your "quiet center" every day. In the morning upon
rising, ( if you have to get up earlier to avoid the morning rush, do
it ), find a spot, ( outside if possible ), where you can sit quietly and
commune with Nature; listen to the morning sounds with a cup of
your favorite relaxing beverage.
It doesn't have to be hours; 15 minutes of quiet realization will do
wonders for the rest of your day and put you in tune with the path
your life should be taking.
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